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C. L. Mullikin's avatar

I disagree about your point on social interactions, I've been homeschooled my whole life and I'd argue that homeschoolers have better interactions with others because they aren't just around kids their age all the time. We have more experience talking to people both younger and older, making conversations with adults much easier. Studies done show that homeschoolers have better social skills than children who are public schooled. As long as the parental figure is making an effort for their child to be in social settings, they will have social interactions. As for introversion, that is fully dependent on the person.

Speaking up about this because I hear it all the time, it's definitely a false stereotype that should be broken

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Annalise's avatar

I say homeschooling is best, but I want to point out some cons that were not specifically listed on the cons list.

That is Sports.

As a homeschooler it is so, so difficult to play sports. You can join leagues and clubs but even there it is hard to find the community of a team and the competition needed to prepare you for maybe playing in college. I have been homeschooled all my life- and in my 8th grade year a bill passed in my state that allows homeschoolers to play sports with their public school. After jumping through hurdle after hurdle and dealing with people who didn’t care whether some girl played sports or not, my mom got me into the system, and I have played two sports with my high school ever since. It’s been a wonderful opportunity for me, and I understand why some homeschooled kids in other states don’t want to be homeschooled because they will miss the bonding of a high school team.

The education system is wonderful for me- it teaches me to be diligent, manage my time, and learn and exercise self control. After all, there is not teacher sending you to detention for not doing your homework. There’s no one to notice if you don’t really do anything all day. Learning to work hard and do the thing well even though I might have been able to get away with it is very valuable to me to this day.

Socially, I agree with Melody- there are many coops that you can meet with, especially with people who are under the same curriculum as you (no, the moms do not have to write the curriculum, just choose one). I am extroverted, and see quite enough people as it is thank you very much. I am not limited to my homeschool friends. I have many friends who go to many different public and private schools around the area. A common question I get asked is ‘well, how do you make friends?’ I always answer with ‘Do you only have friends from school? Nowhere else?’ I believe that sometimes not being in a bubble of kids your age can be an important and often missed-out-on form of socialization.

If not homeschooled, I would go to public school. If the education is going to be something of a wash anyway (and this might just be my county, the private schools aren’t much better than public educationally), I would go for the diversity of kids and the friend group of so many different people.

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